10 Simple But Vital Life Lessons To Teach Kids Before They Turn 10 โ Simple tips to support uncomplicated, effective parenting.
Parentingย is not complicated.
Challenging, at times? Certainly.
But ultimately, your role is rather simple:
- To care for your child, just as you would care for yourself.
- To model the kind of behavior that you want your child to adopt.
- To teach your child right from wrong.
- To keep your child safe from harm.
- To love your child unconditionally.
That essentially covers it. In that spirit of simplicity, here are 10 simple but vital life lessons to teach kids before they turn 10.
1. Being kind is one of the most important โachievements.โย
Accomplishing other things โ like getting high grades โ is great. But what truly matters is how you treat people โ including yourself. What truly matters is being loving and kind.
2. Thereโs more than enough love for everyone.
(For an only child:ย โI can love youย andย your mom/dad.โย For a child with siblings:ย โI can love youย andย your brothers/sisters. Thereโs enough love for all of you โ and I love all of you equally.โ)
3. Your body, and everything about it, is beautiful.
Period.
4. Take good care of your body.
Keep it clean. Feed it enough, but not too much. Keep it healthy and strong. Your body is so good to you. Think of all the amazing things it allows you to do โ like run, skip, snuggle, hug, even eat dessert.
5. We are all unique.ย
We all have different gifts and talents. You donโt have to be the best at anything. Just doย yourย best.
6. You are never alone.
Even when youโre by yourself, like in your room, Iโm always thinking of you and loving you.
7. Itโs important to share with others.
Itโs good to share toys, to share ideas, and to teach other kids how to do things that you already know how to do โ like how to tie your shoelaces, or how to throw a frisbee. (To help this lesson stick, modelย generosityย and service yourself.)
8. Itโs also OK to say โNoโ sometimes.
If thereโs a particular toy that you donโt want to share โ because itโs special to you, like a gift from grandma โ itโs OK to say, โNo, I would rather not share.โ You donโt have to say โYesโ to everyone, every time. But be kind when you say โNo.โ
9. Itโs important to respect your parents.ย
Everything we do, we are doing because we love you, we want you to keep you safe, and we want you to grow up and have the best life you possibly can. (Again, to inspire your child, lead by example: Treat yourself and others with respect.)
10. You are loved, no matter what.
Disclaimer:
This article is for informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional or psychological advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always contact your qualifiedย healthย provider before implementing or modifying any personal growth or wellness program or technique, and with any questions about your well-being.
Copyright ยฉ 2018ย Dr. Suzanne Gelb, All rights reserved
PS. For more parenting tips, check out my guidebook onย how to raise happy, successful children. (Youโll learn how to set a great example that your kids naturally want to follow). Also, check out my e-book:ย The Life Guide on How To Get Your Kids To Cooperate. It comes with an audio version, too, in case you like to โreadโ with your ears. Enjoy!)
Written by Suzanne Gelb
Originally appeared on DrSuzanneGelb.com
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