Life is like a boat ride. The people are like the oars sometimes they help us to reach the terrestrial and from time to time they let us suffer in the mid sea. The sea is a wide platform where one cannot see the end moving slowly. You need to pace up with your difficulties and slow down with your faults. Accept the reality of relationships. The people around you are just the connexions in your boat of life to move on or stay still. It all depends on on whom you chose to travel with.
Be it you friend, boy/girlfriend, your family, your fiancée anyone in life is firstly for surely will give priority to themselves. Yeas! That’s the universal truth you can’t depend completely on anyone for your survival. “YOU” should be your first priority. Self- care is a chief thing where you require caring first. When I mean self-care doesn’t mean only grooming yourself regularly. The intimate part of self-care is taking care of your emotions, your feelings, your instincts, your sensations and a lot more.
The matter of fact is that I bet you are going to feel the pain of a pinch, not your friend. Similarly, the surrounding you are going to breathe. She/he can just console you to the core but will they fall down and break their own hand to fracture themselves to share your pain? Never is that going to happen that’s for sure.
Well said by Shakespeare “all the world a stage. Men and women are merely players”. I would like to add the one who knows to act well dominates the one who doesn’t know how to act upon. The underlying meaning is that you have to be 100% true to yourself first. Act well on your thoughts and confess well to your mind. It’s all because you are going to be your best friend for a lifetime. People are just like oars to you. You are the master navigator of your life.
Controlling partners often disguise their behavior as love or concern, making it difficult to recognize. Are you also in a relationship with someone who makes you feel loved at one point then in another constantly dictates your actions, thoughts, or even emotions?
These are classic signs of controlling partners. They often disguise their behavior as love or concern, making it difficult to recognize.
So if you want to identify these signs then below are what controlling partners do to you.
If you think you are in a marriage of convenience, you will know that it doesn’t feel like a fairy tale, rather it’s about maintaining the status quo. Maybe you are staying in this marriage because everything is “okay” and “stable”.
All the bills are getting paid on time, the house is comfortable, and the kids are happy to have both their parents under the same roof. Moreover, you don’t want to deal with the hassle that comes with filing for a divorce, so you just…stay.
Does this sound familiar? The unfortunate truth is that many married couples stay in a loveless marriage because dealing with the alternate option is scary. They’re together, but they’re not really together. They function more like roommates, business partners, or co-parents rather than lovers.
Knowing how to set boundaries is a game-changer—it’s how you protect your time, energy, and sanity without feeling guilty. Whether it’s with friends, family, or coworkers, setting boundaries helps you avoid burnout and unnecessary drama. Let’s talk about how to do it like a pro.
KEY POINTS
Upholding our boundaries means sometimes saying “no” when others wish we would say “yes.”
Setting boundaries can create conflict, even when our behavior is healthy and we act with kindness.
It’s normal to feel uneasy or even guilty after people react badly to our boundaries.
The month starts with Aquarius season in full swing, so it’s the perfect time to march to the beat of your own drum and forget about what anyone else thinks. The beginning of the month also brings a dreamy and almost magical energy between Venus, Neptune, and the North Node in Pisces. This is the vibe for deep, fated connections and romantic moments that feel straight out of a fantasy. Trust your gut—love is in the air, and it’s looking pretty rosy.
On February 4, Jupiter ends its retrograde in Gemini, meaning the floodgates to abundance are about to swing wide open. That same day, Venus moves into fiery Aries, giving love and pleasure a boost of passion. Get ready to make bold moves and go after what you want. Then, on February 9, Mercury has a moment of brilliance in Aquarius
The new moon in Aquarius is here to kick off a fresh lunar cycle! This powerful new moon, which happens on January 29 at 7:36 a.m. EST, brings a chance for new beginnings. As it falls in the innovative and forward-thinking sign of Aquarius, it’s a time to welcome change, creativity, and fresh ideas.
Aquarius is all about thinking outside the box, focusing on the bigger picture, and connecting with others. This new moon will highlight themes of friendship, community, and collaboration, making it a great time to set intentions related to teamwork and group activities.
With Aquarius encouraging radical shifts and new perspectives, you may feel a burst of inspiration or experience a shift in how you see the world. New moons are the perfect time to reflect and plan, so take advantage of this energy to make thoughtful
Some of us felt the pressure to grow up too fast… meet deadlines, succeed academically, and always be on top of things—before we were even ready. It turns out, this pressure is real for some children today, and it’s called Hurried Child Syndrome. Let’s explore more about this condition.
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