What if? What if I told you? What if one day the words that have been sitting on the tip of my tongue fall out of my mouth and you happen to be standing near? Would you run? Would you flee from that very spot and hide away forever to that you wouldnโt have to see me anymore? What would you say? Would you tell me you feel the same or would you say that today is not our day? Would you say that nothingโs going to change between us? Would you mean that? What if I told you about these feelings that I have had deep inside me for so long? Would you say youโve had them too, or would you laugh and call me a fool? My heart is hoping and praying for you to say you feel the same, but my mind knows I probably wonโt get my way. But what if? What if all my days and nights of hoping and praying and wishing on stars and eyelashes and dandelion seeds payed off? What if you actually felt the same way? That is the question that haunts me at two in the morning when all I can think about is you. If you only knew. -n.w
Controlling partners often disguise their behavior as love or concern, making it difficult to recognize. Are you also in a relationship with someone who makes you feel loved at one point then in another constantly dictates your actions, thoughts, or even emotions?
These are classic signs of controlling partners. They often disguise their behavior as love or concern, making it difficult to recognize.
So if you want to identify these signs then below are what controlling partners do to you.
If you think you are in a marriage of convenience, you will know that it doesn’t feel like a fairy tale, rather it’s about maintaining the status quo. Maybe you are staying in this marriage because everything is “okay” and “stable”.
All the bills are getting paid on time, the house is comfortable, and the kids are happy to have both their parents under the same roof. Moreover, you don’t want to deal with the hassle that comes with filing for a divorce, so you just…stay.
Does this sound familiar? The unfortunate truth is that many married couples stay in a loveless marriage because dealing with the alternate option is scary. Theyโre together, but theyโre not really together. They function more like roommates, business partners, or co-parents rather than lovers.
Knowing how to set boundaries is a game-changerโitโs how you protect your time, energy, and sanity without feeling guilty. Whether itโs with friends, family, or coworkers, setting boundaries helps you avoid burnout and unnecessary drama. Letโs talk about how to do it like a pro.
KEY POINTS
Upholding our boundaries means sometimes saying โnoโ when others wish we would say โyes.โ
Setting boundaries can create conflict, even when our behavior is healthy and we act with kindness.
Itโs normal to feel uneasy or even guilty after people react badly to our boundaries.
Hereโs your monthly horoscope for February 2025!
The month starts with Aquarius season in full swing, so itโs the perfect time to march to the beat of your own drum and forget about what anyone else thinks. The beginning of the month also brings a dreamy and almost magical energy between Venus, Neptune, and the North Node in Pisces. This is the vibe for deep, fated connections and romantic moments that feel straight out of a fantasy. Trust your gutโlove is in the air, and it’s looking pretty rosy.
On February 4, Jupiter ends its retrograde in Gemini, meaning the floodgates to abundance are about to swing wide open. That same day, Venus moves into fiery Aries, giving love and pleasure a boost of passion. Get ready to make bold moves and go after what you want. Then, on February 9, Mercury has a moment of brilliance in Aquarius
The new moon in Aquarius is here to kick off a fresh lunar cycle! This powerful new moon, which happens on January 29 at 7:36 a.m. EST, brings a chance for new beginnings. As it falls in the innovative and forward-thinking sign of Aquarius, it’s a time to welcome change, creativity, and fresh ideas.
Aquarius is all about thinking outside the box, focusing on the bigger picture, and connecting with others. This new moon will highlight themes of friendship, community, and collaboration, making it a great time to set intentions related to teamwork and group activities.
With Aquarius encouraging radical shifts and new perspectives, you may feel a burst of inspiration or experience a shift in how you see the world. New moons are the perfect time to reflect and plan, so take advantage of this energy to make thoughtful
Some of us felt the pressure to grow up too fastโฆ meet deadlines, succeed academically, and always be on top of thingsโbefore we were even ready. It turns out, this pressure is real for some children today, and itโs called Hurried Child Syndrome. Letโs explore more about this condition.
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