Happy In Love

Written By:

Written By:

19265009 414167045644034 2090303274 n 1

Everyone will tell you their idea of Happy In Love. You will hear that being Happy in Love is a romantic notion, a fairy tale that doesn’t exist.

Sometimes the stories and the ideas that you hear will be hard and sad. How being married or in love will hurt.

Whatever you believe or whatever is felt, happy in love is never truly understood and we can only learn and feel by what we have experienced in our own lives. There is so much to discover about love and what it means to be happy. And it’s not the fairy tales or the romantic notions that we hear.

Being Happy in Love is so much more. Its setting dreams, dreams changing, new dreams beginning. Love and Happiness are finding your match and knowing from the depths of your soul that he/she is the one. Experiencing good and bad, and sometimes worse than good is all part of the experience and understanding that you need to work and fight to keep the love and happiness strong.

There is no magical love story like you see in fairy tales, rather the magic is in growing old together and still being so in love then as you were the day you found each other.

It may even take a number of relationships to find the one because you weren’t quite ready for your perfect match.

Happy in Love is an experience beyond the physical emotion, it is the feeling you have when he/she is away, it is the feeling you have when they take your hand or the way they look at you. Being happy in love is how they pick you up when you are down, how they put your needs before their own just to make you smile. Happy in Love is Everyday working to bring the happiness with you even when you don’t think you can. It’s not always easy, especially when things seem to be crumbling in front of you.

Happy in Love has nothing to do with searching, there is no step by step guide and there is no simple way of ensuring that works out the way you plan it to. There is nothing easy about it.
There is no way of even knowing if you are happy in love. SO, why am I writing about happy in love, Well I’d like to think that I am learning how to be happy in love, I’d like to feel that my partner and I will be that elderly couple who have gone through their lives and experienced every magical moment with him and still feel the same way all those years ago.

When I was 20 I married for what I thought was Love. We had 2 amazing beautiful children, 4yrs later it ended. Please don’t get me wrong I loved him, it just wasn’t meant to be. 2yrs later my now husband walked into my life so unexpectedly. He walked in at a time that was very difficult for me. He stood by my side while I walked through the final stages of my previous marriage.

Over the next few years, I began to review my past marriage, I had let go of the hurt from it and began to see something very significant. And it wasn’t what I had expected to find. To this day I truly believe that I was meant to marry all those years ago.

I was meant to have our children AND I was meant to divorce because if I hadn’t experienced all that I had back then, I would never have opened the door to the love of my life. I would never have discovered what my Happy in Love would be. My life was meant to run the course that it has and regardless of all the tough times and the struggles, I can honestly say when I look into the eyes of my husband I can truly believe I found my Happy In Love.

There is so much more that I would love to tell you though I would probably end up writing a book lol. So please share this with anyone and everyone Comment below about your thoughts and experiences tell your story of Happy In Love.

Blessings to you all
Ss

— Share —

Published On:

Last updated on:

, , , , , , ,

— About the Author —

Leave A Comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Up Next

6 Things Controlling Partners Do (That You Should Never Ignore)

Things Controlling Partners Do (That You Should Never Ignore)

Controlling partners often disguise their behavior as love or concern, making it difficult to recognize. Are you also in a relationship with someone who makes you feel loved at one point then in another constantly dictates your actions, thoughts, or even emotions?

These are classic signs of controlling partners. They often disguise their behavior as love or concern, making it difficult to recognize.

So if you want to identify these signs then below are what controlling partners do to you.

Up Next

Rewriting Your Story: Turning Setbacks into Stepping Stones for Personal Growth

Personal Growth

Life is like a movie with no script

Sometimes things go off track.

A lost job.A broken heart.A dream that falls apart.

These tough spots may seem like bad chapters.But what if they are the start of your best tale?

They show hidden strengths.They have clues for your growth.Resilience means bending without breaking.

Your story is not done yet.You hold the pen.You can change the plot.

1. The Power of Perspective: Your Pain Isn’t the Whole Story

When life knocks you dow

Up Next

Marriage of Convenience or True Love? 8 Signs You’re Just Settling

Marriage of Convenience or True Love? Signs You’re Settling

If you think you are in a marriage of convenience, you will know that it doesn’t feel like a fairy tale, rather it’s about maintaining the status quo. Maybe you are staying in this marriage because everything is “okay” and “stable”.

All the bills are getting paid on time, the house is comfortable, and the kids are happy to have both their parents under the same roof. Moreover, you don’t want to deal with the hassle that comes with filing for a divorce, so you just…stay.

Does this sound familiar? The unfortunate truth is that many married couples stay in a loveless marriage because dealing with the alternate option is scary. They’re together, but they’re not really together. They function more like roommates, business partners, or co-parents rather than lovers.

So, if you have ever thought, “A

Up Next

How To Set Boundaries Like A Pro: 5 Tips And Tricks

How To Set Boundaries Like A Pro Tips And Tricks

Knowing how to set boundaries is a game-changer—it’s how you protect your time, energy, and sanity without feeling guilty. Whether it’s with friends, family, or coworkers, setting boundaries helps you avoid burnout and unnecessary drama. Let’s talk about how to do it like a pro.

KEY POINTS

Upholding our boundaries means sometimes saying “no” when others wish we would say “yes.”

Setting boundaries can create conflict, even when our behavior is healthy and we act with kindness.

It’s normal to feel uneasy or even guilty after people react badly to our boundaries.

Up Next

February 2025 Monthly Horoscope: Predictions For Each Zodiac Sign

Accurate Monthly Horoscope For Zodiac Signs

Here’s your monthly horoscope for February 2025!

The month starts with Aquarius season in full swing, so it’s the perfect time to march to the beat of your own drum and forget about what anyone else thinks. The beginning of the month also brings a dreamy and almost magical energy between Venus, Neptune, and the North Node in Pisces. This is the vibe for deep, fated connections and romantic moments that feel straight out of a fantasy. Trust your gut—love is in the air, and it’s looking pretty rosy.

On February 4, Jupiter ends its retrograde in Gemini, meaning the floodgates to abundance are about to swing wide open. That same day, Venus moves into fiery Aries, giving love and pleasure a boost of passion. Get ready to make bold moves and go after what you want. Then, on February 9, Mercury has a moment of brilliance in Aquarius

Up Next

Here’s What First New Moon Of The Year Means For Each Zodiac Sign

What the New Moon in Aquarius Means for All Zodiac Signs

The new moon in Aquarius is here to kick off a fresh lunar cycle! This powerful new moon, which happens on January 29 at 7:36 a.m. EST, brings a chance for new beginnings. As it falls in the innovative and forward-thinking sign of Aquarius, it’s a time to welcome change, creativity, and fresh ideas.

Aquarius is all about thinking outside the box, focusing on the bigger picture, and connecting with others. This new moon will highlight themes of friendship, community, and collaboration, making it a great time to set intentions related to teamwork and group activities.

With Aquarius encouraging radical shifts and new perspectives, you may feel a burst of inspiration or experience a shift in how you see the world. New moons are the perfect time to reflect and plan, so take advantage of this energy to make thoughtful

Up Next

Let Kids Be Kids? 6 Identifying Signs of Hurried Child Syndrome

Clear Hurried Child Syndrome Symptoms

Some of us felt the pressure to grow up too fast… meet deadlines, succeed academically, and always be on top of things—before we were even ready. It turns out, this pressure is real for some children today, and it’s called Hurried Child Syndrome. Let’s explore more about this condition.

What Is Hurried Child Syndrome?

Wondering what is Hurried Child Syndrome? I

— Follow Us —